The Shaming Game

Shaming. Not a game that I’m fond of. Particularly because my mother was fond of the practice and I have loathed it my entire life. I’ve been guilty of it, too, and I’m trying to readjust my thinking and behavior on the matter, but, I have tried very hard not to stoop to the levelContinueContinue reading “The Shaming Game”

On Being Judgemental

Growing up in a Catholic home, when I was young, I remember, often, being reminded of the biblical quote, “Judge not, lest ye be judged.” As a kid, and clear into my 40s, I believed that to mean don’t be so judgemental of new people or new experiences, they might surprise you, in a positiveContinueContinue reading “On Being Judgemental”

Butterflies Inspire Me

I don’t remember when, exactly, it happened, but, for many years, the butterfly has been my spirit animal. Maybe, it’s because a lot of butterflies tend to be brightly-colored, like I imagine my true self to be, even if I can’t always show it. I’m apprehensive about bringing attention to myself, especially, unasked for, negativeContinueContinue reading “Butterflies Inspire Me”